Returning to civilian life after military service is a challenge for any veteran, but for those in the Israel Defense Forces who were wounded in action, the challenge of reclaiming normalcy is incomparably greater. For young men and women who very nearly lost their lives to fighting or terror, it takes enormous physical and emotional endurance, grit and determination to overcome debilitating physical disabilities.

Stav Mizrahi, 28, is one IDF veteran who was seriously wounded while serving in the Maglan Unit during the 2014 “Operation Protective Edge” in the outskirts of the Gaza Strip. “We were assigned to enter a new location in Khan Yunis and take up positions there. Only seconds after I entered the house, I heard a click, followed by a massive explosion that sent me hurtling backward in an overpowering wave of thick black smoke.

“My leg exploded in agony as shards penetrated, but there was no time to focus on the pain,” he recounts. “The place was booby-trapped, and we needed to escape urgently. Someone bandaged me, and we all dove for cover.”

He continues, saying “before we knew it, we were being fired on from every direction at once, and I saw one friend after the other fall. We began evacuating the wounded, returning fire throughout it all. The pain was blinding, but survival was foremost on my mind. At some point, thankfully, they evacuated me to the hospital. What followed was six months of excruciating rehab, after which I flew to the United States for a year to get away from it all.”

Mizrahi says the return to life was brutal. He was barely out of adolescence, and all he wanted was to recuperate and return to life like everyone else. Instead, he found himself facing a grueling period of rehabilitation from physical and emotional trauma—a process further complicated by the ensuing challenge of finding a way to channel his strengths to acquire an education and start a career.

‘I saw my whole life pass before my eyes’

Dorel ben Haim, 30, another IDF veteran, tells his story, saying, “I was inducted at the age of 18 into the Rotem (435) unit of the Givati Brigade, underwent intensive training as a combat soldier and was then assigned to a frontal command liaison role in the Judea and Samaria Operations Department. As a liaison officer, I was on high alert and in constant communication with headquarters, ready to report any data in real-time.

IDF soldier Dorel Haim before being injured. Credit: Courtesy.

“One Saturday, we received an urgent summons to a site where Palestinian terrorists were sending Molotov cocktails, explosives, rocks and bottles of burning-hot oil at Israeli cars on the main highway junction. We got there and made use of non-lethal weapons—smoke grenades and rubber bullets—to get them to disperse. Even as our forces got them to retreat, the terrorists continued hurtling rocks and boiling bottles of oil at us, and we ended up chasing the band of terrorists into the Beit Ummar refugee camp,” he says.

“It’s hard to describe the scene of one of these refugee camps, with its tiny, one-meter-wide alleys, and houses and buildings so tightly packed they’re practically on top of each other. During the pursuit, I dashed back alone to my jeep to change the batteries in my signaling device. It was already late afternoon, and we’d been breaking up clashes all day long. I changed the batteries quickly and hurried back alone down the narrow alley to catch up with my unit.

“As I was sprinting down the alley with my weapon pointing straight ahead, out of the corner of my eye, I noticed a washing machine positioned to drop off the roof of a building right onto me. I tried to stop, but I slipped instead and found myself flat on the ground, frozen in terror. And then, I saw the washing machine hurtling down four flights from the roof, directly towards me.”

Ben Haim notes that “during those awful seconds, I saw my whole life pass before my eyes. I felt the end coming; I envisioned my family attending my funeral. But then … the washing machine landed less than two centimeters from my head. I felt the air whooshing against my face; I felt the force of the impact, but miraculously, it didn’t touch me.”

He says he was in a state of shock and not sure what happened next.

“The driver of our jeep must have followed me into the alley and seen it. He pulled me out of the danger zone, got me into the jeep and poured water on my face to knock me out of my daze, and we went on as if nothing had changed,” he recalls. “But something inside had changed; I wasn’t the same after that. Today, in retrospect, I know that I was suffering from a condition that I’d barely heard about until then: PTSD.”

He says that throughout the ensuing months and years, “I was a shell of the vibrant young man I’d been. I had no energy for life and no desire at all to even get up in the morning. I existed in a black cloud, depressed and found myself struggling in every realm of life. I was discharged from the army but wandered about aimlessly with neither direction nor purpose. I couldn’t get a decent job or support myself because no employer wanted me, and even those who were compassionate enough to hire a traumatized veteran eventually despaired and let me go after two or three months … .”

Life could have followed this hopeless pattern and abandoned both men, along with dozens of their fellow recovering veterans, to self-destructive behaviors. But then, Belev Echad entered their lives, an international initiative dedicated to helping support physically and emotionally scarred soldiers and re-integrate them back into civilian life.

Dorel Haim in New York City. Credit: Courtesy.

‘We’re here for you’

Rabbi Uriel Vigler, co-founder of the organization with his wife, Shevy Vigler, as well as co-directors of Chabad Israel Center on New York’s Upper East Side, explains that “after all they endure, when these wounded soldiers complete rehab and are ready to begin the gradual return to normal life, they suddenly find themselves facing a new kind of uphill battle. At Belev Echad, we make it our life’s mission to give these young heroes the opportunity, support and power to advance in life, develop their skills and talents, and build successful careers, no matter what they choose. We sponsor IDF veterans as they further their education and then support them through the process of finding jobs, and we’ve witnessed incredible results—true miracles.”

IDF soldier Stav Mizrahi before being injured. Credit: Courtesy.

Following assistance and support from Belev Echad, both Mizrahi and Ben Haim are now well-employed and serving as role models to their colleagues and other IDF.

“Finding a job after discharge from the army made me feel so lost and frustrated,” says Ben Haim. “But the awesome guys at Belev Echad didn’t let me down. I met with Or Porat, who directs the organization’s career department, and we discussed my strengths, interests and capacities. Together, we created an impressive résumé, and before long, I was contacted by Sharon Strachman, one of the directors at Belev Echad, who helped place me in my dream position.”

He relates that “I’m employed seven months as the personal assistant of the vice CEO of Zahavi-Atzmon, a daughter company of Israel’s Ashtrom Group—a construction engineering company—responsible for five branches and their exhibits. I deal with all the company’s senior faculty, am active in the internal aspects of the organization, and I work together with the vice CEO, who’s an incredible person.”

Stav Mizrahi recovering. Credit: Courtesy.

Mizrahi shares that he’s now employed in the business development department at Ashdar, also affiliated with Ashtrom.

“After a preliminary year of training, I consulted with Strachman and asked her advice regarding whether to continue the regular track and work as an appraiser in a property appraisal office or make the move into development,” he describes. “She and Belev Echad once again took the initiative to send my credentials to Ashtrom, and it wasn’t long before I had several interviews lined up. It’s unbelievable, but on Aug. 1, I’ll be finishing a full year there.”

In regards to these two success stories, Shevy Vigler notes that “there’s incredible joy and gratification in watching these amazing guys grow and flourish after years of struggling. We’re reaching out to any IDF soldier or veteran who wants that extra help or guidance and inviting you to join us because we’re here for you.

See related stories on Belev Echad here and here.

Stav Mizrahi at work in Israel. Credit: Courtesy.


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